So many wear collar's just to wear it. And hey it is their right but it also make me annoyed because i know about earning the right to wear a collar. To be owned. To serve and please my Master. And i guess i feel it "lessens" the meaning of it. For many to see those who play at it. But when you are owned and collared there is a pride of wearing that collar and serving your Master. And because Joanna Blogs thinks it looks good with an outfit and wears it i think lessens the meaning to those looking in.So now the next question is what does it matter if what anyone thinks as long as you know it.
Well, it diminishes the views for anyone new coming into the scene and those looking in from the outside. They see Joanna Blogs wearing one and might assume she owned and collared when she is not in the deeper sense of the meaning. Maybe they see a slave who is owned but Joanna Blogs was not owned so they hit on that slave.....it makes for confusion in our D/s community. That confusion creates a lack of respect toward legitimate collars.
1 comment:
I enjoy your blog because of the nice ways you convey your devotion to your owner and the dynamic.
It is always a fine line between wanting to promote the commitment and devotion to being owned is to be and needs to be taken very seriously in order to truly get to the level where the payoff is so great and at the same time not go on a hubris tangent of trying to take value of something personal by comparing oneself to others.
I think often the best we can do is understand that for some they are just Velcro collars but for others they mean much more and for people to understand there is very much a difference in how the two groups live this life.
Lin
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