Sunday, February 06, 2005

oppss i did it again !!

The song that's goes.. opps i did it again by Britney Spears ...a great song but that besides the point..my opss was not that great, in fact, could have been a disaster if MG hadn't sorted it. A trivial matter really, under normal circumstances it might never have become an issue but as it was, it did and by doing so has given us a lil step up within our M/s
i said to MG at the time, had this happened to any one else it would have been past off as just one of those things, but for us Master and slave, it has proved a good point to bounce from.
i thought i might write about it here because it shows, in the very basic form, just how an M/s relationship works, real life, real time, 24/7

If i might explain. Lil insignificances that make a whole, let me cut a long story short here....

Friday i had to go shopping, i was to collect the rent for payment on Saturday morning. i took this from the bank as always and would normally have come home and that was that. However, there was waiting at the chemist a prescription for MG which i thought i would also collect while i was about the town. All that done, i continued on my way, on this day, to school to collect our lil one knowing that i needed to put fuel in the car for MG to go to work the next evening but having purchased the medicine for MG, had i put petrol in the car i would have been short for the rent on Saturday, so i didn't fill the car up.
Saturday morning comes and there is not a drop of fuel in the car and unlike normal, where i would do it myself and have it ready for MG to drive to work, i asked if i should and he said "N0 leave it, ill do it on the way out" Simple you would think, not so....

The garage was out of unleaded.... not a drop... he drives to the next one (on an empty tank)..CLOSED.... this meant he now has to back track, in the wrong direction some 5 miles to another garage, still on empty and running on fumes i guess. He made it but was now 15 minutes late setting out for work, had got himself into a stress over the whole thing and ended up with a headache to boot and really, at the base level, because i messed up. i should have filled the car, it is one of my responsibilities to see to these things and i didnt, i let myself and MG down and caused unnecessary stress all round.

The moral is...
  • slave should have filled the car up before it got to empty....
  • There is never a need to be without money for emergencies
  • Always take Credit card out with slave.

MG has made it a requirement now, that i do not ever leave the house without my phone and my Credit card, because i do, quiet often, as i tend not to think about things like emergencies or what's if's, i think its called " blonde moments"

i was not punished for my lack of thought as with hindsight one could say that i was not to know that the garage would be out of fuel, and MG had said he would do it himself, but i feel i let MG down and put him under considerable stress and strain, unnecessarily. It wont happen again.

It is one of my responsibilities to see that the car if fueled ready for him to drove to work, its what i do, look after his well being and the lil incidentals such as this.

i can chuckle at the whole thing now but at the time, it was no laughing matter but if nothing else, MG and i have found just one more "requirement" for this slave that her Master insists on and woo betide me if i do not comply with the instruction.

Just base level, day to day M/s at work.

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