Weekend Starts Here

Well, it finally arrived, that time of the week when Master sends that all important text that says “The weekend starts here”… it may well fall on a Saturday or Sunday but then again it might also be a Thursday just like today. You see our weekend starts when Master finishes His 5th day shift and it really doesn't matter what day of the week it is because our weekend revolves around when Master is at home. This sometimes gives me a problem as i have to redefine my days to be on a weekend with Master and on a week day with the girls, but all in all i manage to sort it out in this little slave head that i carry around with me.

Weekends with Master are special as it gives us time to be truly M&s, in fact it is the only time we can really get into the spirit of who we really are as the days when He is at work are time when we are just about maintaining our lives, even putting them on hold sometimes, knowing that at the end of the current shift, when “our” weekend arrives, we can get back into some real one on one, 24/7 M&s. Apart from of course, the minute either of the girls arrive home and then its back to the semi nilla atmosphere that we have to maintain in their presence.

You see, the children do not live a M&s life, they are children, they didn't ask for Master and i to have this kink, all they see is their mum and her Man, MG.. Oh don’t get me wrong, they love Him to bits and after nearly 3 years of having this big burley man running around the place who teaches them the guitar or helps out with the homework like any good father would do.. MG fits nicely into their world as well as mine. What he doesn't do, is Dom them.. That isn’t how it works for us, He “fathers” them, He Masters me, His slave.

The girls are mine, from a previous marriage and when i first met Master, His opening gambit, once He knew i had children was, ”They will always come first” and that is how it has always been, their needs come before mine or His, no questions asked.
The eldest child has a good working knowledge of D/s and M&s having sat beside me for quite some time as i have run our chat room and built our website and even if i say so myself she has a good grasp of what our lifestyle is all about, we can hold a sensible conversation with her on many aspects of the lifestyle and she has openly met with some of our D/s friends.
The younger one has no idea and that is how it will stay until such times as she is old enough to be able to understand the dynamics of what it is we do. She will ask the odd question and we will explain to her what we feel she needs to know and what we think she will be able to take in but that’s as far as it goes at this time.

i always address MG as Sir or Master, in all and every circumstance, (for His part, i was sub and am now slave although in the presence of the girls i am still called sub as they are familiar with that and we are not sure how they would react to the slave tag so we keep that for private times alone). Always been that way, from the moment we became a 24/7 D/s couple and the children accept it as the norm now. It has cause a few ruffled feathers at home with my youngest when she asks why i call MG "Sir" and has taken a bit of explaining, but we got around it by saying that within chat, we use nick names and that is how people address us in a chat room, she could go with that rather than trying to give her any insight into our lifestyle choice which at her age she really doesn't need to know about in any great detail.

We did have a slight problem over how i and the girls address Him on one occasion when we visited his mother for a weekend. The girls call Him, MG which is His chat nick and His mother had some difficulty with that until He spoke to her about it and told her that it was a nick name by which the girls had always known Him. Although lets be honest about it, He didn't tell her the truth, we had planned to but she is over 70 and we thought it might be rather difficult for her to come to terms with our lifestyle choice, best leave well alone we thought !!

Anyway, the “weekend is here” so i have far far better things i could be doing right now that writing my journal.. (winks) another time perhaps…..