Monday, January 17, 2005

3 Years, to the day.

Three years ago today, MG and i became 24/7 Master and sub. After what some would consider to be a very short online relationship, we met real life and some 5 months later began living together. Much has happened to us in those 3 years, some good, some not so good, but all extremely happy and fulfilling years that i would not wish to change for anything.

In that time we have both grown within our D/s, from the first tentative steps that ended up with the pair of us, in fits of laughter as we just couldn't get the first spanking session right, to learning techniques that work for us and finding what it was that floated our individual and unique boat. This lifestyle choice is after all, unique to each and every one of us and what work for us may not work for others, but we like to think that in our time together, we have found our niche.

Then to the creation of the
seekers community, the chatroom in various locations and the final piece de resistance of the seekers website. As each year passes we have become closer in our relationship, deeper into our D/s now being Master and slave within a Total Power Exchange relationship. We have met both online and real life some great people, many who are now long standing friends, we have attended our fair share of munches and get together with D/s folks and even a few fetish evenings as well.

There is nothing like this way of life, nothing to compare to the depth of honesty and truth that is an integral part of D/s. Nothing i have ever known can compare to what MG and i have now and it can only get better. We grow, we move forward, striving to be better and better, we learn, not just about what makes a good D/s relationship but about each other, about our individual wants and needs, our aspirations, our dreams, which seem to be so very similar.

With each passing day, week or month we continue to develop our choice of lifestyle, adding to a firm foundation, trying new and exciting concepts, taking what works and building on that, discarding what isn't right for us but always learning, always growing. We are never going to be perfect, we are never going to know all that there is to know but that wont stop us trying, wont stop us from at least looking at new things and seeing if they can be incorporated into what is already a very powerful and inspiring way of life.

Later this year we plan to marry, not because we feel the need to have something that joins us together, we have that already, the collar i wear means more to me than any piece of paper that a register can give me, but in this day and age, that all important paper has some merit that we feel is needed now, not just for us but for the children and for the future. The day we wed i shall be the happiest slave alive, that day i shall also be 50 years old so a double celebration. Those who will attend that day as witness to our continued love and devotion will be lifestyle friends in the main, those we have come to know well and hold in high regard. They have supported us through many a low time as i hope we have been able to do for them. For that i wish to say a big thank you, to all those who have been there, along the path that MG and i have travelled for the past 3 years.

To my Master i wish to say, i love you Sir, with every breath i have and with my whole being. Thank you for the last Three years, may they long continue.


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