Saturday, November 13, 2004

Other things take priority

Isn't it just the way tho, that you think you have it sussed, have it all worked out in your head and something or other take preference and try as you might, each time, there is a good reason for the change of plans or other more pressing matters take the time you have set aside for enjoyment and relaxation.
However, having said that, this weekend has been rather pleasant, with MG home we have had some quality time together, not particularly M/s but together, which is a rarity these days what with his work load etc and as we both said, just being in each others company is enough sometimes, when it doesn't happen that often. We have had some of that, the last couple of days and worked on some website designing which, as a team i have to say we are quite good at. The Seekers site is becoming a vast resource and we decided it was time to bring all the sub domains together under one banner. The end result is pleasing but more than that, it gave us something to work on together, which in itself, for me, is even more important that what the end result is.

Sitting side by side, discussing, designing, working out the little touches that make our sites what they are affords MG and i some really close linked time, totally focused on us and what we are doing without any distractions, these times bring us so close, we know what the other is thinking, one might have some input then the other adds something else and together, we find the end result. As individuals we each have something to bring to the table, mine is the vision, how it should look, the end picture etc, MG's is the technical knowledge of how to create the effect i can see, singularly, we would never achieve what we do, but together, we can do anything and that is what makes us so good at what we do, team work.
We don't always get it right, we fall down on many things but we get up again and start over and in the end we always reach the place we are intending to get to.
This applies to all aspects of our relationship, M/s, nilla, family.. everything, nothing is easy, life is an uphill struggle sometimes but then would it be worth the effort if it was always handed to us on a plate. The struggle makes the achievement all the more worthwhile in the long run and altho i may complain about lack of some things in my life, really i shouldn't because in general, i am very happy, my life with MG is about as complete as anyone could wish for. The icing on the cake isn't always so important, a sprinkling of sugar is just as good sometimes and half as fattening.

Priorities, mine are health, happiness and the love i have for my Master and children and the love they give me in return. Sometimes, that's all i need.

Thank you Sir, for loving me.

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