Life is a lottery.

It looks something like this from where i am standing, unless we win the lottery tonight or hey, lets not be fussy, Wednesday night would be ok.... actually anytime, those lil balls fancy falling into the right slots that have our numbers written on them would be fine, but until they do i cant see that life is going to get that much easier or harder come to that, sure, we, like most people have dreams of what we would do with all that money and whoever said money cant buy happiness obvious had way to much of the hard cash variety and should have spread it about a bit. Of course, it could also be said that money is the root of all evil and i am sure many would agree to that because it is a well documented fact that money changes people and i don't want to change one little bit from the person i am right now... however.. a few spare pounds here and there certainly wouldn't go amiss but, it is a sad fact that these days "money doesn't grow on trees" and even if it did, i am a lousy gardener and all my plants tend to die so i am right back to where i started. Still, we can all dream the dream and live in hope and one more quote or pun and i think i shall retire for the evening in a hot bath and let it all wash over me. If i had a penny for every time....oh heck..that's enough of that....you will all start to think i am money mad....

Not money mad but it does make the world go round even on a very basic level, bills to pay, kids to clothes... who hasn't gone "ohhhhhhh" at the price of kids shoes and what makes matters worse is that they are as expensive as mine which are far larger and take a lot more leather in their construction, so how can they be as expensive... now who mentioned leather...!!! and of course that dreaded word to MG...shoes !!
i am giving a really bad impression of myself today dear reader but it is also well known, certainly by MG that i have a liken for both leather and shoes, not that i am the only one, i know of an American Mistress who owns a vast array of shoes and is proud of it, my only difficulty in all this is i can never find the pair MG wishes me to wear.. He is convinced i had a particular style and hunt in the bottom of the wardrobe as much as you like but i cant find them. Less on the shoe topic and more of the leather tho i think. But on second thoughts leather is a fetish, so the BDSM scene will tell you, shoes and the accompanying feet are also a fetish so i guess it is ok to put then in the same blog as a single entity. Fetishes.

There are some out there that would make your hair stand up on end and then there are those that a lot of people are involved in, of course, to the nilla world they are all just plain kink and are sick and depraved but within the lifestyle, your kink is yours and as long as you are happy with it, who is to say that it is wrong. my kink certainly isnt going to be the same as yours or anyone else's and as long as each is practised with the SSC code in mind, then enjoy yourself and do whatever it is that satifies the urge in you.
The list is endless, well not quite, but it is certainly long and with many a variation and it would be wrong of anyone to say that any kink, whatever its nature is anything other than the pleasure of the person involved ( i do draw the line of course at the yukky ones ie beastiality, incest, children etc, as do all true and honest lifestylers, these has no place within the realms of the lifestyle).

Age play, Asphyxiation play, Blood play, Chastity, Control scene, Daddy/Mummy, Degradation, Dirty sports, Discipline scene, Dog & Master scene, Domination scene, Edge play, ElectricityPlay, Enemas, Exhibitionism, Extreme play, Fantasy Play ....endless but each a valid feitsh to the person whom it holds a fasination for.

Fetish. Anything, which has been, invested with special sexual significance, e.g. Latex, Leather, Rubber, Silk, PVC, Uniforms, Boots, etc. It may also include also certain smells (e.g. of underclothes) and possibly tastes.
Fetishist. A person with a strong fetish.
Fetish scene. The fetish community, a group which includes people with a tolerance of, and often an interest in, BDSM. Many BDSMers have found that being part of the fetish scene is considered more acceptable to outsiders than being part of the BDSM scene

So my liking for shoes and leather makes me one of those i guess, and very proud of it i am too...and no amount of money or an easier life, is going to alter that, all it might do, is afford me the chance of buy more shoes...hhahahah and more leather... come on balls, its got to be our turn soon.!!