Sunday, October 10, 2004

Sunday: Baking Day

Now, i am not of the era when every female member in the family spent half their life in the kitchen. i don't bake, if for no other reason than i am a lousy cook; the kitchen is my least favorite place and the less time i have to be in there, the better. i can put a half decent meal on the table and in double quick time (so Master tells me) but cakes, in my opinion, are best purchased from the shop in nice little boxes with compliments of "Mr Kipling" (crumbs)
However, having admitted defeat of the culinary nature, (my Victoria sandwiches go flat and soggy, my cheese sauces a thick blob of goo; i even once tried to microwave a cake which turned out to need a pickaxe instead of a knife to cut it ) i am taking the very bold step of offering to the reader my thoughts on cakes of a somewhat different nature.

i guess you could say that a cake is a cake is a cake, but the one i am referring to comes in a variety of flavours and with many kinds of coatings. my favourite one, and the one that i enjoy most has a deep base, heavily loaded with cream in the middle and an icing that you would die for.
Here i go again you might say, waffling (no i cant cook waffles either) on about some such nonsense, you might begin to believe that i am totally off my head but i felt that i needed to say here, within this blog that my own personal thoughts regarding the ingredients of a good, firm and solid D/s relationship, is much like the baking of a cake: add all the right stuff, allow to rise and grow to its natural place in the greater scheme of things, add a bit of cream delight, plus a delicious topping of a sexual nature, and you have what can only be described as a wonderful mix... of course.. too much of one ingredient or not enough of another will make the cake turn out all wrong, and i am afraid, this particular cake does not come in a ready to bake packet mix; there are way too many variations to the basic recipe so i guess it's a bit like.... add a pinch of this and a dash of that and if the taste isn't just how you like it, go back over what you tried and change it, until it suits your own personal pleasure.
D/s is a bit like that also, no way is right, no way is wrong, it really all comes down to what suits you and how you like it. Add the bits that work for you, discard those that don't and the end result should be something that works and works well and matches each individual's taste.
Anyway, back to the original thought for today's blog, its that time in my week when Master finishes his 5 day work shift... great, brilliant, but on a Sunday morning at 7am, i have to admit that submission is the last thing on this slave's mind when the alarm wakes her with the sole intention of making the preparations for her Masters return. i sat on the side of the bed, half awake , half asleep and i am willing to admit that the thoughts running through my mind at that time were far from submissive, in fact, it went something like this... what the **** am i doing at this time on a Sunday morning, dressed in a somewhat provocative manner, drinking my first cup of tea of the day and waiting to "present" myself to MG for his pleasure, when what i really want to do is crawl back into my nice warm and cosy bed and sleep for at least another 2 hours. The second thought went.. " i wouldn't do this for anyone else" and i recalled a previous life and time when it was all i could do to make a good excuse NOT to do exactly what i was doing right here and now... and all i can say to that is.. this life i have chosen must be something really special and this man i call Master must also be someone special because i like my Sunday Morning lay in's and i would not give that up for just anybody.


How often can it be said that submission is not always a pleasant prospect, is it possible to submit to something you enjoy ? How can that be submission ?


Definition of submit:
verb: submit or yield to another's wish or opinion
verb: yield to the control of another
verb: refer to another person for decision or judgment
verb: accept or undergo, often unwillingly
verb: accept as inevitable.

Definitions of submission:
noun: the act of submitting; usually surrendering power to another.

Now i know why i got up at 7 am on a Sunday morning...!!!!

1 comment:

SK said...

There are moments when we subs think, what the hell are we doing???? But, glad to know that you recalled. (Perhaps a double shot of espresso would be good for Sunday mornings?)